What makes a day at work truly worth the time we give it? After a recent full-day workshop, a VP described it as the best day his team had spent together. That comment stayed with me—not because the day was especially productive or efficient, but because of what it suggested about how we measure the time we spend at work. In this episode, I explore the responsibility leaders carry when asking for other people’s time, why our calendars reveal more about our priorities than our stated intentions, and how trust and thoughtful design can create the conditions for meaningful work. Because a full calendar can tell us where our time went. The more important question is whether it was worth going there.
After a recent full-day workshop, the VP who hired us said something that stayed with me: it was the best day his team had spent together since they began working together.
He didn’t call it productive. He didn’t talk about efficiency or ROI. He called it the best day.
Organizations have become remarkably good at accounting for time—hours worked, meetings attended, deadlines met, revenue by quarter. But we rarely stop to ask whether the places we’re putting that time are actually worth going.
That question carries particular weight for leaders. When you call twelve people into an hour-long meeting, you aren’t simply spending an hour. You’re asking for twelve hours of human life.
Perhaps our calendars deserve to be considered accordingly—not simply as scheduling tools, but as expressions of what we believe deserves our finite attention.
Join me as I explore:
✅ Why “the best day” means something different from the most productive one
✅ What leaders are really asking for when they ask for people’s time
✅ How trust creates the conditions for meaningful work
✅ Why a well-designed experience can never guarantee a well-lived one
✅ What our calendars reveal about our actual priorities
Key Takeaways:
• A full calendar tells us where our time went, but not whether it was worth going there.
• Leaders are responsible for more than their own time—they influence how others spend theirs.
• Trust can create the conditions for impact, but meaningful participation cannot be forced.
• What repeatedly receives our time eventually creates our lives.
• Our calendars may reveal our real strategy more clearly than our stated priorities do.
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